Anonymous said: hey. what do you do when you don't want anyone to know you're depressed but also have a lot of plans that you made? is it dick to just not say anything about it and just put them off?
Yea it’s a dick move.
If you make plans your responsibility is to honor them and/or cancel them maturely. A simple text will do.
I even let my friends know “hey man sorry i can’t hang out like I said i’m just feeling really depressed and don’t think I can go out today”.
People understand, real friends won’t get mad at you, and it may even serve as a good opportunity to get a little help.
Hope you feel better.